People online always think i'm agressive, rude, and an extremist lol how do u deal w/ that?

I assume you're still in school, and not out in the world of work yet. You really need to learn self control of your language before you go to work for someone, or your job won't last long. Self control is a sign of maturity as well. You can learn to express your worldview without being vulgar. Don't use your "confusing background" as an excuse. If you're concerned about the starving children in the world, then why don't you do something about it? The Peace Corps still exists, you know. Join it and go to countries where you can teach people how to help themselves. Grow above the environment you're in and prove that you ttuly think every human being on this Earth is completely equal (your words). Good luck.